16G Titanium Lotus Flower Septum Ring Daith Earrings

I got the 8 mm at first bc i thought it looked cuter (the placement of the petals n such), but it literally hurt when i touched it bcuz it was too small. It didnt feel tight, but it caused pain, so I bought the 10 mm one which doesnt hurt so far but also doesnt look as cute. I wish u didnt have to pay the shipping fee for returns bcuz i basically had to pay $30 for one piece of jewelry (im not gonna spend all the money to return just to get $15 back). The ends of the upper petals also kinda tickle my nostrils, but thats a given.